This Thanksgiving we had the joy of being in San Antonio with our “ family.” Our family has grown over the past years in exponential and wonderful ways. This past year we were blessed with the addition of Caitlin to our family when she and Michael were married. What a great reminder that God answers prayers. The family has also expanded in other marvelous ways through the good news of Jesus Christ. We gathered at my parents’ home with nearly 30 people to give thanks to God for His mercy that is new every morning and for his steadfast love. My Dad asked everyone to share what they were thankful for and the group shared blessings of salvation, family, our country, the church, and yes a nephew even said desserts. I however, was thankful for the gathering of God’s people and the fact that my parents are such a wonderful example of believing that all who know Jesus really are our brothers and sisters, our “family.” There is a strong inclination during the Thanksgiving and Christmas season to be very protective of our family holiday dinners or our time of exchanging gifts as a family. Others know when we serve them in the city, community, or the church that they are loved, but nothing expresses the love of Christ more than inviting them into your home and letting them invade your private time as a family. I am thankful that my parents are hosting in their home a Moldovan pastor who was radically saved that is now leading a seminary of 30 pastors in Moldova and a pastor from another city who was staying for a time of restoration. In addition, two army basic trainees, Laura’s parents and several other couples spent the day with us. “T”, a man from our inner city ministry, also joined us. He stands alone for Christ among his peers and family. His family is going in a different direction yet “T” walks with my twin brother Mel in the streets of the inner city. Mel and “T” have nothing in common culturally, economically, educationally, or racially, but their faith in Christ unites them as brothers. I remember last June when “T” called to wish me a happy Father’s Day that he told me that my mom and dad and Mel had given him his first birthday party and his first birthday present. I marveled that a man in his 40’s had never been honored on his birthday. This Thanksgiving “T” was without a job and during the week of friends and family being together, one of our relatives mentioned that the company she works for is hiring and that “T” should apply. What a joy it is to see the body of Christ meet the needs of our brothers and sisters. What so often is missing is an intentional desire to be available to others in their times of need. This is not a cost but a blessing from God. As He poured His life out for us so we should pour our lives out for others.
No one does this better than my parents who are two of the greatest servants of Christ I know. Their home is always open, they serve the least of their city, they have been married over 50 years and they love the Lord and their family. Most of all, I am thankful that their” family” is God’s family! How much richer and sweeter are our times together when we realize it really is about loving God and others before ourselves.
Each of us is living a legacy before the next generation. They are watching what we say and more importantly what we do when the Lord blesses us. Do we serve ourselves or do we serve God and His family? Thank you, Mom and Dad, for your selfless service that encourages me and teaches my children what it means to be servants of God. I love you and thank God for you for showing us what “family” really is.